I used this SSR:
https://www.amazon.com/SainSmart-8-C...ainsmart+relay
it only switches the line or neutral, not both. I chose to switch the line. I tried to draw out a rough diagram of how I did it. Again, I'm not a licensed electrician or anything of the sort, I'm a computer programmer so take it as you wish. If you have questions find someone who understands wiring AC outlets or take it to your local hardware store and ask them to "reality check" your setup before you plug it in.
I used black, white, and green wire as per standard use. my picture has different colors so you can see it.
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