Ok let me chime in here. As mentioned, I do live right by Parvin State Park....in fact if you look at the map you'll see "Running Deer Golf Club" and that is right where I live.
As for hotels, the Ramada is still there, and the Wingate is right next to it. The drive is about 7 minutes from the hotel to my house. The Holiday Inn Express is about 15 minutes away from me, right next to the Cumberland Mall. I pass all of these almost every day and they are all easy to get to and from.
Hereis the link to the Ramada.
There are also a few motels in Millville that keep changing owners but I think the three above are nicer...